Should I stay or should I go?
There, a big career chance (in the big city); here, the place 'where my mind is'...
Three months ago I had chosen to go there, but now, with a lot of things linking me here, I don't know...
If I stayed, I would feel that I am throwing away a big career chance. But, if I went, I would feel that I am throwing away a big love chance...
At the end I think, "once you're in love, there's no choice!" but, in the meantime? what should I do?
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Los riesgos en la vida siempre se toman por lo mas audaz, de lo contrario no serian tan emocionantes.
Esta ciudad sera siempre un punto de cambio, el amor sera un momento para crecer.
Un abrazo!!
Qué complicado...
Ninguna oprtunidad es despreciable, y aunque estoy con el corazón bestante roto demomento, sé lo significa estar enamorada y desear vivirlo. Creo que tienes que establecer prioridades, espero que te sea leve.
Un abrazo de solidaridad!
You must hear your heart! It is the only low you can not disregard.
Besos!!
sigue tu voz interior :)
No hay garantías en ninguno de los dos casos. Nada es seguro. Me gustaría darte un agradable consejo, pero y si te lo doy y no resulta? Puedo decirte lo mismo que lidia, eso sería lo único. Pero jamás te arrepientas de la decisión que tomes, no importa si no funcionó.
¿NO es hermosa la vida? De esto está hecha: de decisiones. Es como un viaje en montaña rusa ...
pos perdon por meter mi cuchara donde no me llaman, pero yo que tu me quedaba, al fin trabajos hay muchos (aja!), bueno, no, pero creo que la mejor manera de decidir sobre algo es pensar al revés. Si, de tin marin de do pingüé, y cuando caiga uno, piensa que harías sin el otro.
Sus palabras me han reconfortado y servido en gran manera, sinceramente a todos: ¡gracias totales!
Yes, everybody says, do what your heart tells you to do... that's the problem!!!!! your heart wish could have both of the choises at this moment. But let me tell you if you get to decide and if what you decide was the right thing, then let me know... Damn I'm in the exact same situacion. I'll share it... I was in the same mind truoble as you are, altough I left, and while I was living one of my dreams, I couldn't sleep by thinking what if I decided not to come and to live the other option...? I cryed, wishing I was where he was even tough, I wasn't sure he was going to apreciate the sacrifice I did just to be in the same city in order to see him once in a while. it doesn't matter at this point, but I truly wish right now, after a fatal accident that left me in a wheel chair with my spine fractured, that if I could get back on time, I would chose love. And you know what? I'll be back to that city once I'm ready to leave this chair. So I'll know I dodn't gave up in love.
Cheers my dear.
Ann
Dear Ann:
I'm really surprised about your experience, you lived the same situation and mind trouble that I am living now, then you find me and share me your experience, this is really weird but very convenient and appropriate.
Let me tell you, I have decided to stay, I don't know the consequences of my decision yet, but at the moment I feel good. In your case I think that it's never too late to change your mind and pursue your dreams. There will be many others choices in our lives, and we will have to face them and live with the consequences of our decisions.
By the way, I hope you get better soon, my best wishes are with you!!!
p.s. Where do I find you? send me an email!
Gracias querida Jaz por tus buenos deseos, I me agrada mucho saber que estas feliz con la desicion que tomaste y que estes en Guanajuato.
Besos, Ann
mexicangold@lycos.co.uk
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